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The cruel cut that ruined a man's life
The Sunday Times (Sydney), December 26, 1999
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A PERTH man has won a $360,000 damages payout after a WA doctor
admitted he botched a circumcision operation which left the man with
a badly deformed penis.
The man, 26, who was operated on at birth, has never had sexual
intercourse.
Due to a lack of information on neonatal circumcision, he grew up
believing he was deformed. He was unable to obtain an erection until
he had corrective surgery at the age of 18.
The man, who wants to be known only as "John", said he has a
permanent lack of sensation in his penis but has also suffered extreme
pain.
He suffered severe psychological problems from his late teens which
led to an attempted suicide at 18, six months after partially
successful reconstructive surgery.
In January 1992 when his injuries were diagnosed as a bungled
surgery, he turned against his parents, hating them for allowing the
awful operation to be done.
In 1997 he sued the GP who circumcised him.
This month John received an out-of-court settlement after the doctor
admitted liability for the injuries and agreed to the payout.
His lawyer Hayden Stephens, from law firm Slater and Gordon, said
the payout was one of the biggest in Australia for that type of injury.
"This young man has suffered a horrific consequence as a result of
this negligent procedure and he now has to live with the problem for
the rest of his life," Mr. Stephens said.
"I am really pleased for him, but no amount of money will ever truly
compensate him for the injuries he has suffered."
Now completing a doctorate in medical science, John said he took
legal action in a bid to draw attention to circumcision and to try to
eradicate it in Australia, if not the world.
He said circumcision was a disgusting, unnecessary act of mutilation
which the medical profession had forced on unsuspecting parents for
years.
"For my whole life I've been imprisoned in pain and exiled from
pleasure. I'm serving a prison sentence for a crime that someone else
committed – that's the reality for me," he said.
In John's operation, still routinely performed without anaesthetic in
Australian hospitals, almost all the penile skin was removed which
prevented the penis from growing normally.
John said: "Parents want to see their children grow up to live healthy
and happy lives and many parents have consented to circumcision
because the Australian medical profession convinced them it was a
quick and painless procedure that was essential to avoid health
problems.
"Not only is the claim that it is beneficial wrong, the AMA has not
adequately informed parents of the surgical risks involved.
"I took legal action against the doctor who circumcised me because I
hate circumcision and I wouldn't be able to live with myself if I did
nothing to stop other babies being injured and mutilated in the same
way as me.
"I don't want to walk down the street and see a young mother with
baby boys and wonder and worry whether they've had done to them
what was done to me."
Born in 1973, John's "routine" operation became a nightmare he has
had to cope with all his life.
The young GP who delivered him cut away far too much skin and had
to stretch the remaining soft, scrotal tissue and stitch it in place.
The result was a mess.
"The shape isn't right, the length isn't right – it's shorter than it
should be – and the glans (head) is actually twisted a bit," John said.
Believing he was deformed, he hid from embarrassing changeroom and
shower situations at school.
Throughout adolescence – difficult enough years when all is well – the
psychological harm matched his physical scars.
He was more interested in science than sport and became withdrawn
and studious.
He prospered academically but psychologically was crying for help.
When he went to university, he realised he had a serious problem and
the bungled circumcision was diagnosed.
He fought severe depression and contemplated suicide but opted for
surgery, hoping it could save him.
"The pain involved in that was horrific and it lasted for years and still
now I get aches and pains from time to time," he said.
"With all the pain, the psychological trauma and embarrassment that
went with having that surgery, it wasn't worth it.
"But I was 18 years old, I had something very badly wrong with me
and I was desperate.
"I had to try something."
Skin was taken from his upper thighs and grafted to his penis, but he
was left with little real sensation.
The grafted skin had unsightly leg hairs growing from it, which
required electrolysis and caused further scarring.
He remains angry that he was circumcised unnecessarily and that the
medical profession continues to push the operation on unknowing
parents. He is outraged that 12 per cent of Australian boys are still
circumcised.
"Babies should never be circumcised," he said.
"My case was a totally unnecessary circumcision. Yet my mother and
father were told it was essential for me to be circumcised to avoid
health problems."
John said some medical authorities still claimed circumcision reduced
the rate of HIV infection and sexually transmitted diseases – a claim
he says has been proven wrong by medical data.
He said it was wrong that doctors, who charged about $200 to
perform a circumcision, continued to make a small fortune from such a
potentially harmful procedure.
"I have been assaulted and mutilated and for my whole life I am living
with an injury," he said.
John said his injuries had made it almost impossible to contemplate a
relationship with a woman and he found it hard to make friends.
He was angry with his parents but he now acknowledged the
operation was not their fault.
His mother, a close and loving supporter who carries her own guilt
over the surgery, said: "He's never had a relationship with a woman
because of how he feels about his body.
"At the most important stage of his life when he should have been
dating and girls were showing an interest in him, he withdrew."
She said they should have been told how to clean a boy's foreskin,
not advised to have a circumcision.
His mother also regretted the blunder was not diagnosed earlier so he
could have had corrective surgery at a younger age.
John said he would like to see a support group established in Australia
for men who have problems due to circumcision.
Information on circumcision is available on the Internet. The address
is http://www.cirp.org
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